Bummed.

It's amazing how you can be friends with someone for so long and then one day it all ends and you never talk to each other again.

I was friends with someone (We'll call her N) for almost 10 years. We were the best of friends and were practically sisters. I moved away for college and we slowly started drifting apart but I could still talk to her a few months later and it was like we just talked yesterday. Then N got pregnant and met a boy, this boy was not baby's father. From the moment I met this boy, I didn't like him. I came in to town for her birthday and he was staying with her but he wouldn't wake up. We hung out at her apartment, went to lunch for 2 hours, went to Target, and then went back to her apartment and he was still in bed. N finally convinced him to get out of bed, only to come lay on the couch and be unsociable. So, needless to say, I wasn't a huge fan.

Then N had her precious baby, and N's boy took on the role as daddy and so I thought, "wow, any young man willing to take on a baby that isn't his, must be at least a decent guy." That was until last May when N came up here for my college graduation and boy came too. Then I found out boy was smoking marijuana in the car WITH BABY IN CAR! I lost all respect for him then. After that, it was hard to talk to N and when I would bring up things about boy N would always have excuses for him.

N was set to be my maid of honor in my wedding, which she knew before I was even engaged.. However, she did nothing. And I don't mean nothing like she didn't help make favors kind of thing. I mean nothing like she didn't even have time to talk to me on the phone. There were several other things but I won't go into that. Then...I got a TEXT MESSAGE, yes text message, in January, telling me that she would not be able to attend the wedding. She dropped out of my wedding, by text message. Since then, I have not heard from her.

10 years of friendship and ended by text message. Then today, I saw on her sister's myspace. She had twins. Precious baby twins. 1 boy and 1 girl to be exact. They are adorable. We will never be friends again. I don't approve of her boy and I don't deserve to be treated the way she treated me as her friend. But the fact still remains that we were friends for 10 years and I'm sad about it today. :-( My mom always used to tell me that by the time I was an adult I would be able to count all my REAL friends on one hand. :-(